04 nov 2015

How not to raise a boy

This rather lengthy post provides an overview

Adolescence can be called truly adult, because this is the moment when a twelve-year-old child becomes an adult, and it takes a lot of strength to walk this path with dignity and successfully accept the burden of growing up and responsibility for his actions. But it is important to keep in mind that at this time, especially at the age of 12-15, teenagers tend to be overly sensitive and nervous. And this is absolutely justified. That's just not every parent finds a solution to this, because in addition to the usual rules of raising a child, there are rules for raising a teenager. At this age, there are quite a number of new problems and nuances.
Of course, it is important to continue to believe in your child, to help and support, but it is important to understand that at this stage of development this person is looking for himself and his place in society, he should not be too much limited, because he needs more personal time, space and life. He wants to become more responsible and independent. This does not mean that you should stop helping him in any way. For example, if a child wants to solve a serious problem on his own, then just give him advice, but do not insist on nothing more. Let the child manage his own pocket money, maybe even get his own card so that he can carefully monitor his finances. It is important, of course, to explain to the child in advance the price of money and the difficulty of obtaining it.
In addition, if your child has a significant other, never try to get more out of a teenager than he wants to say. He himself should have a desire to share something with you, and if you constantly put pressure on him, the chances of this desire appearing will decrease many times. You have to respect his wishes.
It may often seem that a teenager needs the love of his parents in a completely different way than a small child, but such an opinion is a gross and big mistake. On the contrary, a teenager even more often needs to feel that he is needed and loved, he just does not need to constantly show his love, but choose a really favorable moment for this. A teenager should return home not as a place where he will be bored, prevented from self-realization and being who he wants to be, but a place where he can relax and, if necessary, receive support and advice. Seek the teenager's favor with patience, attention and respect. He doesn't need any more babbling and excessive care. Treat him like an adult. The promotional codes of the bookmaker 1xbet are a unique combination of numbers, letters, and symbols. In other words, it is a special code that allows players to access additional opportunities in the company, enhancing their gaming potential. In order to receive a welcome bonus in the form of a free bet, you will need to enter the 1xBet free bet promo code during registration. In the designated registration field, there is a window where you can enter the available promo code. In 1xbet coupons, codes for free bets are also entered, and there is a special field for inputting them.
 

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